Clouds what are in ours today?

Sunday, May 30, 2010

My back-pack of life contains?

Life is an extension of self ~when i look into the eyes of my young ones i am so grateful to God to have given me a second chance at parenting and getting the babies that are bequeathed to us a start in their respective journeys upon this earth. Their walk and paths depend upon the tools that their mothers and fathers give them to utilize along the way. Everyone knows that a little love goes along way so make sure that there is plenty,2nd tolerance because you won't be the only one going through the world on a path~ 3rd be compassionate even if the world is not always friendly ,smile as you go about your tasks a smile is easier than a frown and then too why turn your world all upside down. The 4th thing you must take as you walk into the space of work,education or what have you is your faith know that one has to be humble and small in your reasoning because the universe is such a great mystery to self and even tho we may know a lot about enough of life know that no-one knows everything so there's always room to learn more~5th Stay hungry for knowledge and wisdom, 6th be patient and trustworthy~there is nothing better than being a good companion and friend to someone. 7th never hate someone that isn't just like you because we were made as if flowers in a garden,varieties abound where we reside and there are no two exactly alike~ i have prepared this back pack with the necessities to go on with your life dear ones take your treasures out sometimes and examine them they are laden with my love as i love you- you love someone else during your walk~ treasures are in you handle with care!

Sunday, May 16, 2010

the life that we live~

Every since i was a little girl i have been curious about death and the comings and goings of the people we love! What i have learned could fit a book outside of the learning curve that scientist attribute to our learned behaviors there is a part of our emotions that no empirical testing can ever touch. This realm of self and soul is a place that earnestly has its own subconscious state of being that reserves those that we love in a cocoon of sorts whereas we absorb the energy that they have left to us to go on. the strength that comes from a life of nuances and realities that aren't explained as you or I could but in the transference of a look, a smile ,a touch, the wiping of your brow. These very intimate things are the mirrors that reach into our souls at the close of the day when they are no longer here with us we can touch and feel that spirit that was tangible but now is lost.We must keep that string of thought with us always no matter the consequence that which was here and now is gone will always have you as it's mainstay. Children, mothers,fathers,cousins,aunts,uncles,step children,great-grandmothers the whole role of matriarchs and patriarchs that pass along the way are but the depositors of the way to the light when it's your turn to bid a fond adieu! They pave the way and make the comfort real for you and i just be kind and remember that each in kind will do what has been done for us..later on is always there waiting for us,,remember to love those that are here for you and even those that aren't they see you too!

Wednesday, April 28, 2010

Dads and their daughters

Dads and their daughters the world over have a sense of continuity to the equations. even though we women who have sons also have a sense of closeness there is still an enigma about little girls. I watch my son melt when he looks into his littlest daughters eyes and sees himself there. That same look came from me some 30+years ago after he was borne. It's a link into the family line my grandmother would say who by the way is a healthy 98 years young. the coming and going of life befuddles me in the sense that your years as a child and your years as an adult don't quite chalk up the way that you feel it should but who is the better judge of that euphenism. The tender watchful gaze from a father penetrates all but the hardest exteriors and causes many to understand the protective sway that this unit has. No matter the culture or country all daddies love their girls from Cali to Calcutta the wonder of a baby girl has no bounds love your little girls dads.

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Candles Light Up My Life~

It's said some where that a person needs something in their lives to be passionate about and what we love we protect~I really haven't seen to many instances that a person doesn't enjoy a hobby or a time-out to enjoy another aspect of life~ Thus the candle making enterprise that I love to do! It can become lucrative if you strive to take it to a different level. I do it for therapy and relaxation as well as being a formation of a brand that I can take pride in AND Perhaps maybe just maybe something will come of it not because it's bigger or better but just because? I would definitely love that idea just because~

Monday, January 4, 2010

Welcome to the New Year 2010

Welcome to the New Year 2010

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What can you change in 'Self' this New Year ?

I can say that this is such an exciting time to witness this year. I almost smile when I think of all the turmoil and strife one goes through to come out safely on the other side. Perhaps because i convey and share my views and thoughts that this way is a satisfying diversion to maintain my health..after all stress kills! Talking out one's view-points and giving your best advice no matter the situation has got to be one of my fine point. I am an objective individual oft times putting a person's feelings in front of mine,wel this is what this blog is all about. it's time to get down and dirty and give people who want to own up to their bulls*** a new lease on life. I had a long engaging talk with my younger brother today we spoke about the necessary evils of life which choice would be the lesser of two evils? That conversation always bothered me as a younger woman because at that time evil was just a word something you threw out after a person made you angry or a premonition was afoot. That word didn't come out as elegantly as you may have liked but it came out. What I have found through living is that there is an apparent evil that lurks within,around,under over and in the human being. It's not something tangible but it stands for every thing vile,greed,larceny,jealousy,hatred,slander and lying. People take these attributes and attack others for what ever their personal agendas may be and most rimes don't feel one thing or another about taking your brother or sister through those trials.Why this is my topic is because it is everywhere the media ,companies that scream ethic and moral fiber exhibit it. The man on the corner shows it,the little woman lying in your bed supposedly the love of your life does it,even the small child that you coached after school has signs of it! What brings on this onslaught of 'hatin' as the younger generation calls it. My theory is this if a person displays other that which the cliche peer group deems as acceptable then they are wrong to come off of the main pattern or trodden road. In a world where thought permeates every fiber of our being and thought push ideas and ideas push actions why wouldn't you believe that these things are attributed to an idea or thought? Some of my teachings came from the orthodox religion and the residual impact of science and the image of self come through brighter as I get older and wiser,the wisdom one gathers as they get older merely comes from facts that have been proven to be that..facts. There is an old saying that there's nothing new under the sun and that everything has been done at least once comes back time and time again to glance in my face as the facts again reemerge to prove a daunting effort as an untruth but people will still do there darndest to prove that a lie will change into the truth and that with out a doubt will never be the case here! Emotions and what a person feels are by far one of the most oxymoron of life. No one could possibly read another's mind but body language and the way a persons moves when there are around or engaging in talk or not even talking can say what the mouth won't always say. I am a firm believer that truth needs no support and will remain truth until the end of time however a lie transforms from one form to another often times morphing into no sembalance of it's original form~ ha! as if that is strange then you have those individuals who pretend and live the very lie that they hate but that would be another chapter for another day. i just wanted to vaguely touch upon the subject because it fascinates me to see a person who clearly knows the truth try to bend it ,put a spin on it and corrupt a society or even the world with a basic untruth how very sad that is to not stand for truth and spread it but to promote lies from within,such has been our society and our culture don't you think it's about time to unveil the lies and start out fresh this year with the truth! It stands tall and reverent, it will never let you down you don't lose sleep and the world will be a better place for doing it~ That's my story and I am sticking to it~ Happy New Year World ! Let's try something different this year